Afraid of Commitment?

I remember a friend said to me once that she didn’t want to start a fitness program because she knew that she’d have to do it for the rest of her life and frankly, she just wasn’t interested in that kind of commitment. 

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But what she was really talking about was the maintaining side of fitness, which is much harder to sell than a quick fix.  It’s just not that sexy.

I truly believe that the hardest part to a health or fitness program is the bit that comes after you get to your chosen goal.  Drumming up the motivation for getting your goals is easy.  Whether your driven by being able to zip up those jeans you’ve been keeping through to something more serious like warding off a pending health condition, finding the mojo to achieve here is easy.  Not to mention there are like a zillion programs around to help you ‘get there’.  But I have yet to see one that says; ‘So you made it! But I lied about 12 weeks – if you want to keep this goal a day-to-day reality, then you’ve just signed up for life.  Oh and good luck with that cos you’ve only paid for 12 weeks, now your own your own’.  Ouch. 

In reality there is no such thing as a 12-week program, it’s a lifetime thing.  And until we can really embrace that we are going to find ourselves back at square one and folding away those jeans that are ‘too tight’ again. 

 So why is Maintenance is harder than Motivation?

It takes guts to look long-term commitment in the face and say, yep I’m going to do it.  To be honest the thought of having to rock up at the gym week in and week out for-the-rest-of-my-life, is daunting to say the least.  Knowing me I’d rather not sign up at all to avoid the inevitable fail.  But if I look at my workout history I’m tracking fairly well.  There have been times when I was more ‘lax’ about my fitness due to other ‘life’ stuff.  But all in all I’ve just kept at it.  I try not to plan to far ahead and if I miss a week or three, it’s not a big deal.  Interestingly I never do fitness classes because they are SO planned and you have to commit to two things; arriving at the gym on time and also assuming that you’ll even be motivated, aka interested, in doing that class at the planned time on that planned day.  Its not for me, but thousands of others love it – its their thing.

The key is to treat it like any other part of your life that you have unconsciously ‘committed’ to.  Like putting petrol in your car when it needs it, health insurance (you’ll ideally be paying this for life in the hope you never actually have to use it) working career, family obligation, maintaining friendships, paying taxes and brushing your teeth (if only to avoid costly dental bills).  You just do it cos it makes your life run better.  Same with being fit.  We do it cos it really does make your life run better, aside from the aesthetics which is mosts peoples driver.

So perhaps re-think this commitment to a thank-you.  Every time you can zip up your jeans with ease or being able to climb the stairs without puffing (while everyone else is).  Thank yourself for keeping up the commitment to maintaining what you’ve got, how much you’ve worked for this feeling.  Because you actually cant buy that feeling, you have to just keep working at it.  Be motivated by that instead.

 

What drives you to maintain?

 

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About elissakerpen

HI all. I have a Bachelor Degree in Health Science specialising in Nutritional Medicine so Im a qualified Nutritionist and Food Coach. I am also a qualified Fitness Therapist and Masseuse. I have worked in the wellness and health industry for over 13 years - and I love it. But what gets me really excited in talking food - the healthy kind - and sometimes the treats. But now I work as a Food Coach helping people banish their own food myths and ideas around various diets and how they came to be where they are with their health. Im here to help anyone wanting more information on wholefoods and their truth! Hope you'll enjoy my posts. Please share it if you think someone else might benefit Elissa x

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